Dear Alexandra:

It is possible and even likely for two individuals willing, to help each other through difficulties, especially with competent couple and individual psychotherapy. In many cases, I believe, it is possible only with such professional help. Unfortunately, in this case, it doesn’t look like it, to me. Simply because of the history of the relationship and the ways the two of you acted and reacted to each other. You have a way better statistical chance (way better!)for a healthy, loving relationship with another man than you have with him.

anita