Hi luli,

It sounds like he’s on emotional autopilot. Sure, you can discuss it all with him, but you can’t make someone feel something that’s not there. Even if he agrees to be more engaging, after a while he will go back to autopilot. We all do.

“Absence make the heart grow fonder”… What if you do back off and take an emotional vacation of sorts, from him?

See if he follows you or courts you. What a strange word “court”, but that’s what men did in the old days.

You don’t even have to tell him you’re doing it! Let him court you or wait for someone who will.

Good Luck,

Inky