Dear Jamie:

I like your answer to your own question. I will add to him being your rock (you mentioned this in your last post and in your original post)- that you will be his rock too. In the communication between the two of you, be each other’s rock. Let him know and have him let you know, about your individual fears, each taking responsibility to your own feelings, and help each other. Neither one of you can heal each other, but you can definitely help each other in the process of your individual healing.

anita