Dear bricklady:

As long as the communication is ongoing, it is a good thing. I think you are clear about keeping the topics of conversations light-and-easy on your part, let him lead the conversation, choose the topics while you respond only to what he brings up, at this point.

But if he initiates a tough topic, like the future of your relationship, if I was you, I wouldn’t dive into it but proceed with caution: make your response short and as light (but true) as possible. No long sentences, explanations, “speeches”. Short responses with a casual tone of voice. Then let his speak. Basically give him the leadership in bringing up the relationship and leading such conversation.

… Got to wait this waiting-period wisely. Results are not guaranteed, but you can do your best to increase the chances of desired results, results that will be healthy for all parties concerned.

anita