Dear heartbrokengurl:

Thank you again for your post on the other thread. To put these thoughts out of your head will take some time and patience. Having no contact with him will help shorten the time it takes. You wrote that if you send him a message and he doesn’t respond quickly, you immediately think he is on a date.

If you have no contact with him (the famous No Contact Rule I read about), then you will not be sending him messages, you will not wait for his responses and you will not wonder- while waiting- if he is on a date.

What do you think of no-contact with him?

anita