No and this is my point to him, I re read my post and I felt I sounded awful and callous, I tried to amend the post because although I have been with him 6 years and she only moved out 4 years ago it was a really difficult 2 years for everyone.

They have no children or finically committed, he says he just values her friendship as she supported him as a friend when things were tough. He got close to her children who now don’t want to know him. I’m just so frustrated, I accept the friendship but believe it should be with boundaries and he should be honest with me when they are in contact.

I left him last week giving him the chance to go finds his unfinished business with her but he begged me to go back to him.

Im just so confused