Dear Alex,

This is definitely emotional abuse, and doesn’t come from a loving place in any way.  he will likely use emotional abuse and manipulation when/if you try to break up with him (and tell you things like nobody else will want you; you’re lucky that he put up with you, or make up other hurtful untrue things about you).  Regardless, better, sooner-than-later, to get away from him and rebuild your self-worth.  You deserve way more, skinny butt or not… 🙂   Good luck to you.