Dear heartbrokengurl:

Ugly is disrespectful, abusive behavior. In its ugliest, it is the hurting of an innocent child.

Ugliness is not in the size or shape of facial features, it is not in the looks. It is in the behavior. As you evaluate candidates for dating in the dating website, look for ugliness- is a guy clearly disrespecting you? Do not proceed. If you meet a guy and he verbally abuses you in any way, do not date him again.

Do watch for ugliness- you can’t see it in a photo though. Watch for it elsewhere.

anita