I believe love is all about giving my best and my most for the other, even when things get difficult, he says I have a misconception of love and relationships, that a relationship is only yo enjoy with the other and when it is not happening why should one remain on it, but it is impossible to be ok and joyful all the time. So love stays There at the ups and the downs and values what has Been built, we had changed for each other, but he always seemed yo not ve fully on it because of his fear to commitment. He wants just the good part and I don’t believe that is the idea of love. Feel confused he is with someone already when he told me to leave his house he told me he wanted to be alone hace no commitment, but when we got back together he seemed yo change his mind once in a while, just as soon as things got hard he took again his possition, but started with this New person, so… She seems to be ok with it, is that what Will get him to commit and feel Ok?