Dear Abi:

Whatever was or were the topic (or topics) of the passionate arguments he couldn’t take anymore, the arguments that hurt the two of you, that topic was placed at a higher importance than the well being of each one of you and the well being of the relationship. And so, the relationship ended.

You spent many years with each other. If you were ever to get back together, I hope the number one priority would be to settle differences in a peaceful, non aggressive ways, lending an EAR to each other (Empathy, Assertiveness, Respect).

anita