Hi Phyllis,

If I’m reading this correctly, I love how he had no romantic feelings towards you.. and then suddenly once he is in a poly relationship THEY love you! Again, if I’m reading this correctly (please clarify if I’m not!) it’s like they had a meeting and YOU (lucky girl!) were chosen. Because how boring is it to be in a poly relationship when you look like any other monogamous couple.

But believe me, THEY will be the Primary Relationship.

Tell him he’s not a sultan living in the ancient world. So you will not be part of his harem.

As long as you’re moving, move on.

Best,

Inky