At different times, she was more available than others, especially during the first few months (you know, the “romantic phase.”) But she hadn’t told me she loved me for well over a year, and she repeatedly turned down my invitations to get together, and to talk on the phone when we weren’t together. I haven’t seen her since October. I actually do think she loves me, but I don’t want to be in a relationship where there are months of not seeing each others, or weeks of not talking. I think she would benefit from some regular psychotherapy, but that is a decision that only she can make. Thanks for touching base, Azouz.