Well Anita,

I also wrote “I had to plead her to meet me”, I think you missed that part. We met a couple of times, I tried being nice to her, but she was never responsive. I tried making things right even after the hate speech – she was not interested at all. I even apologised for not being able to meet them earlier, even though she went on cancelling the plans for the longest time – and she went on to tell people that, I never meant any of the sorries I said.

YES, an apology was far important to me than a box of chocolates, for what she said to me and about me, to so many people.

NO, I was not possessive about him, if I was, I would have tried stopping his interaction with the girl he is currently with, long ago. I did not.  Try reading the original post.

When his friends came over, he was spending his every free second with them. I never stopped him.  That’s when the major communication gap happened.

But anyway, I have moved on. People around him, his friends from college got to know about this only recently and all of them are mostly shocked. From what I have heard, and seen, I hope turns out well for them.