Dear perfect:

Is this man the same man you shared about in your previous threads?

If so, there is no doubt this man is abusive and that you should cut all contact with him, like I suggested in your previous threads. You gave more evidence in this thread why that would be a good decision on your part.

You wrote: “my family think I am lucky to have him”- either your family/sister don’t know him (in that case you can tell them what you shared about him in these threads on this website in the last three months) OR

They know or don’t care to know who he is because all they care about is that he is a medical doctor and has spent money on you. Maybe that is all that matters to them.

What matters to you is to experience physical/ mental health. This man has been and is hurting your health. It is your responsibility, your job to promote and protect your health. When a person is hurting your health, your job is to protect yourself from that person-

– no matter what your family thinks you should do-

so, protect yourself and … this time, do cut all contact with him.

anita