He told me he is VERY unhappy with himself and needs to be alone to figure it out – exactly what you’ve said. But I can’t believe how he’s done this – in the span of an hour, he destroyed my entire life with him and seems to have no issues with it or regret. I’m living on someone’s couch and I built an entire life with him, yet he doesn’t seem to mind it at all. While he’s working on himself or whatever, he’s completely disregarded how I might be feeling. Aside from my own job and school, he’s completely ruined everything else I have – my home, everything we own together, the entire reason I’m living here, our mutual friends….it’s like I’m a forgotten piece of this puzzle. I no longer matter. And I don’t know how to get past this feeling.