Hi Anna

im sorry to say this but my view is that he no longer wishes to be in a relationship with you. He may have his own issues with depression and needing to find himself but I personally don’t believe these are the main cause for ending the relationship.

i say this from s position of experience. I too finished a long term live in relationship whilst having the same type of issues. I say with regret that I used these issues to explain my actions when it was a case that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship but I didn’t have the emotion awareness (or guts) to actually say it.

please realise that you need to detach from his perceived reasons for ending things and gather your own thoughts for helping yourself through this. It will be hard but will be a lot easier if you don’t try to second guess what he is feeling