Just wanted to give an update. You were right, Anita. It didn’t matter what I said to him. He played the victim and accused me of giving up too soon, even though I have been trying to fix our marriage for YEARS. We went to see a counselor yesterday, and even in front of her, he was abusive and manipulative. I could see in her eyes that she felt pity for me and completely grasped where I stood. I have asked him to move out of our house, which will happen this weekend. I am taking my power back, and I have never felt better! I am truly excited for the future and to be free to be my true self.