Dear jimmy:

You stated: “my problem is I’m not sure whether which girl should I choose for a better life. ”

My advice: do not choose the ex because the frequent quarrels you had do not make for a good life. What you are interested in is a “better life”. A better life is one of peace, not fighting, not aggression. Because of your history with your ex is filled with quarrels (aggression), better not chose more of that.

If the new woman in your life is not quarrelsome, do choose her. That will make a better life.

anita