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Hi Anita,
Thank you so much for your detailed response. It is so helpful! I think deep down I know you are right, yet I can’t seem to get out of the deep disappointed that all the wonderful things he promised me are not going to come true. I can’t help but feel like it was something (or a few things) that I did that made him change his mind about me being “the one”. I think he really has some emotional work to do to figure out why he jumps from woman to woman, but somehow I keep thinking that he was so good to me for over a month, that he talked so much about the future and how excited he was to be with me, that I feel like something about how I acted last time I saw him changed his mind. It also really hurts that he’s now “taking it slow” and “learning from his mistakes” with this new woman he’s interested in now. I don’t understand why he wasn’t willing to do the same with me?