Dear Smile,

we all need love and most of us find love most fulfilling, when satisfying sex is part of it. Sex cannot substitute love, though. Maybe part of your difficulty to let go of her is that you wanted to create intimacy and connectedness between you with sex. It just does not happen like that. And there can also be mindblowing sex without love; that is probably the case here. This particular relationship has a lot more negative than positive so it is truly better that you look for sex (and love) from someone else. You do not want to mess your mind and life even for great sex, do you?