Dear Jesss:

I think that ending all contact with him is a very good idea: don’t initiate any contact with him, and do not follow him on Facebook. Place him and the relationship with him in your past, then close the door on it.

In a future relationship with a man, proceed slowly, get to know the man thoroughly before getting attached, best you can. Ask him questions, gently, so to get to know him. Share about yourself so he gets to know you. Proceed cautiously. Stick with reality and don’t get too invested in songs and romance to the point where reality is no longer relevant.

Reality is always relevant.

Post anytime.

anita