Dear Smile,

I don’t think she will give it to your friend or other person. She knows that you want the property and she is using it to connect to you again. She probably already has a plan how to connect to you again because she has previous experience in it.

I would suggest to change your thinking style. Caught her off guard emotionally, a surprise visit if you can. Show her that you are changed. Don’t repeat your patterns. Don’t repeat past with her. I would suggest not to mention past things and don’t let her mention it either. Tell her you don’t care about the past. Show her you have moved on. She will lose interest if you don’t act like you anymore. She knows her tactics will only work with old you. If you can’t do this then don’t engage her directly because she has experience in winning and you have experience in losing to her.

Second option is to not to contact her directly. Talk through your sister or mutual friend. Tell her that she can’t change and you can’t live with the person she is. Tell her she doesn’t care about you. Tell her if she is sincere she will give property to mutual friend as a good gesture. Tell her you need a break to think about things. Tell her you have to know if she is sincere. Don’t show her it’s over just show her that you are on a break. The goal here is to get your property back because you already know she can’t change.

Best of Luck.