Dear Soopy:

It reads to me that you have all the answers to the important life questions. At 23, this is very impressive to me. So, no wonder you didn’t ask questions here, except for:

“Is it better to be miserable in your lonely existence, or together with someone who makes you miserable?

Is it better to stare at the ceiling of your bedroom alone wondering if you’ll ever find that someone you can love. Or is it better to lay in a half-hearted cuddle after some meaningless sex with someone you can barely stand anymore”- questions I think you asked yourself, not others.

You ended your beautifully articulated post with “Off to bed I guess? Good night.”- and if you went to bed alone, I guess you answered your own questions.

anita