Dear anita:

Thank you for reading all that I have written so far (I don’t think there is much to add at this point) – it is truly hard work requiring lots of diligence and patience.

I have always tried to live with an open mind, so yes, I am willing to consider anything, anything at all.

I do have to make two points here. The first one being that I always try to come up with as many theories and/or explanations as I possibly can (not only to this situation, but to everything happening in my life) and normally I never guess, or, rather, guess partially, because either it is something that I didn’t even consider (the idea simply escaped me OR it was due to something that I didn’t know at the time) or it is a mix of a few things. Hardly anything is ever black or white.

The second point is that education in my home country is very particular about details. It would be just as important (if not more!) to know exceptions to a rule as the rule itself to pass an exam. Since I have always been an A- or A student, I couldn’t help but pay attention to details, both in school, high school and university. My feeling is that this is the reason for my obsession with details. I may be wrong, of course, but this would be my explanation.

Wishing to move forward if my answer is satisfactory enough for you!

Thank you,

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