Hi zee

sorry I didn’t read your comment before I just replied – I was composing my reply too long I guess. I totally agree with you! I am a total people pleaser and I really wish I wasn’t. I am wondering now whether a lot of my wishes and desires for marriage stems from parental pressure. I’ve always been a bit of an over-achiever and now I feel like I’m not meeting expectations (especially my family’s). My younger sister getting married and having a baby was a big catalyst for me feeling like I want to get married. I now question what that is really about!!! I definitely need to sit down and think about whether I want something for myself or for others deep down. Thanks!