Dear Hang:

You got upset when he told you he wants to meet you for fun, while he has another girlfriend, because this is not what you want. You want him to be serious about you (to “seriously…start again with me but until now he told me he thought I knew that we couldn’t be anything serious.”)

You asked: “What does this (his offer to see you for fun while he has a girlfriend)  mean? Does he love her or not?”-

It means that he doesn’t respect you and he doesn’t respect her. If a person does not respect another, that person is not loving of that person. And so… he loves you not and he loves her not.

If you agree, what do you think you should do/ say to him?

anita