Hi Milly,

You don’t have to get into a new relationship right away. Even though you’re 26. Even though your fist real relationship only lasted three months. Even though he found someone new so soon.

First of all, he isn’t your friend. At least, not anymore.

When you are ready (and it may be later this year), put yourself out there. But not in a desperate way. More in a “I’m going to go to this party/event/place and see what happens”. And go where all the men are. And let people know you are looking for someone.

Most people get married or find themselves in relationships one day. So instead of asking, “Why me?” have your default background thought setting be “Why NOT me?” View relationships as something people stumble into almost by accident.

Good Luck!

Inky