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Hey guys….i finally got to speak to speak to him. Basically he didn’t react well, started shouting and saying every time he goes through something I make it about me….
Im all for supporting. But I also believe that the coping methods you used when you were single can’t be the same you use in a relationship. You can’t shut me out…he was using curse words so loudly….im like…this doesn’t have to be an argument…if you’d be civil and calm and listen maybe then we could reach somewhere…guess I’ll always be the one who left when things got rough…but I’m not leaving the relationship entirely…just the living situation. I can’t sleep well…its just not fair to me. Im unhappy…. He stays in the living room most of the night. Doesn’t check on me…doesnt even want me around…idk…its just frustrating honestly…