Dear Justhere:

The title of your thread is “He says he is dealing with things and has become emotionally unavailable”- he is more than emotionally unavailable, he is aggressive as well. Yelling and shouting curse words at you is being (overtly) aggressive. A Home, as I view it, is a place where no aggression is practiced, overt or covert. So, no wonder you are distressed and couldn’t sleep well. I do hope you no longer live with him, sooner than later. I also hope you will not tolerate his expressed aggression. No matter what he is dealing with, there is no justification for his aggressive/ abusive behavior.

anita