Momongirl what Anita said, ” Long distance relationships are not satisfactory, not for most people, I believe. Not for long.” This is a 100% true statement. Many people I know have put so much energy into a long distance relationship, that when the reality of the big B, the big breakup happens, they have been left even more confused and hurt by virtue of being in a long distance relationship. Perhaps you should revisit that long distance relationship and be honest with yourself in asking, is this (long distance relationship) really going to be what you are looking for. This type of relationship is very susceptible to collapsing because all the variables, all the necessary elements that are required for a relationship to work, are absent.

I am curious…you said, “I in love with my bestfriend, which is a GAY.” Is there any significance in his sexuality coming into play? I was just wondering if it is important to differentiate between  your relationship with your best friend, who you say is Gay, as opposed to straight person. I was just wondering if there is a significance to this…