Dear Sleepy_Kiki:

You wrote: “everyone’s just different”- get to know yourself and others as you interact with them. Be true to yourself in all your interactions with others. “To thine own self be true” first and foremost.

And then, learn about the person you are interacting with: is that person honest, dishonest? Respectful or not? What does he value, what is important to him? What motivates him? Does he keep his word, is he consistent?  And so  on.

Make your life a learning experience.

anita