Hi Maria,

I feel like your post said that you tried very hard with this man for seven years, but he was the one who said “he was losing it, and very unhappy with the relationship”. You did your best to make it work, bought the house with him..but despite our best intentions, sometimes people grow apart.

Meanwhile, you met this other man, and things are working out very well. I don’t really consider this cheating because your boyfriend already told you he was unhappy. It is not your job to make anyone happy. I think you should trust your intuition and gut and go where you are happy, and wanted. Keep us posted.