@Macy

Hi May, I appreciate your thoughts.

I get your point that some girls get obsessed with their boyfriend and stop investing in their friendship. Only when the relationship ended did they remembered to go to their friends. That’s never me. I always make sure I allocate time for my friends, even if I get very busy with school/work. I’m very supportive of my friends and the first person they think of when they need someone to listen/vent/be there. And I always held my words.

It’s still kinda difficult for me to look at the situation objectively, because to be honest, I wanted to spend time with my bf more than go to the party.