Well done. Sometimes it is difficult to move on completely – but it is required for a peaceful soul.

Focus on the great things you’ve got going on in your life currently – a new boyfriend, fresh prospects for happiness, and all the other little joys of life.

One thing I would recommend is doing some ‘Loving Kindness’ meditation – there are some great guided videos on Youtube. It is essentially the idea that you wish people that have hurt you kindness, well-being, and peace. You don’t have to makeup or get back with these people at all – but rather – you allow yourself to feel joy for this person (its quite hard and requires practice, so don’t get bothered if you hate the idea at first) and wish them well on their way onto the next chapter of their lives and thus, you free yourself of the hate and anger you may still hold within you. It’s like a breath of fresh hair on a cold beautiful morning when those feelings are gone.

Stay beautiful, stay happy, and love life.

-H