Dear dadari83:

It is quite evil, to plan using you and brining a child into the world with the plan to separate from, as in not being there in person for the child, once he achieved his aim.

You wrote that you didn’t know “this kind of evil was real” but it is. All kinds of evil, are real, unfortunately. And these don’t only happen to other people.

You mentioned forgiving, in your original post. I couldn’t do it, nor will I try to forgive a person who has done certain things, or, if he/ she has done lesser things, not having sincerely regretted those things.

As far as letting go of the hurt and anger over what he did, as you continue to interact with him, will it help if you tell him, not ask him, but tell him that you know what he did, believe you know what he did (or did you already tell him?)

anita