Yeah I definitely can see that’s what is bringing it on. My boyfriend and I have so many great qualities in our relationship. You know like communication and I feel like we have a great connection and we enjoy each other’s company. We’ve recently started spending a little more time apart because we literally spent everyday with each other. And I feel like that has helped. I guess I’m just searching for that “feeling” again. I get it when we kiss or hold hands but it doesn’t last. I feel stupid because I know logically it doesn’t last forever. My past relationship was literally a roller coaster of emotion so I’m wondering since I “felt” something for 4 years and now I’m with this wonderful man and I don’t “feel” something all the time it’s wrong. What I mean is that when he walks in the room I don’t get all weak in the knees like I did. I feel more like content? And when I look at him I don’t think “oh wow he’s so gorgeous” it’s just like looking at someone you’ve known forever.

Is this something that I can work toward with this man? He’s so good to me and I do things for him that I honestly do because I know he likes it or enjoys it. I couldn’t imagine life without him right now. Or is this a sign saying ” yeah you need to be with someone you still have that feeling with” ?