Hi Anita,

i understand all these that you mentioned are possibly luxury or materialistic. But these were my dreams for my only son. My partners kids get to go to holidays and do everything when they are with their mother/grandparents but I cannot plan anything because honestly I cannot afford for 5 to go on holidays. And I feel my son is deprived of all this when he shouldn’t be. It’s not fair. And my mother loves me and I love her too. She doesn’t approve of my relationship with my partner because she says I am just repeating the same pattern in my life ” husband/ partner not working and I live in stress”. I don’t plan to go to india and live but what I am today , educated &a financially independent ” is all because of my mother. My father passed away and my mother lives alone. The least I could do is to take care of her , call her here and let her relax for the rest of her life. She is and will never be a burden on me. If I was just with my son she would have come here