Thanks Anita. I think you have a good point about us each having different experiences at any given moment and that’s what’s behind our communication or lack of. It’s helpful for me to remember that, as I know I can be kind of self centered. It’s actually a relief to fully believe that not everything is about me. In fact almost nothing is lol. I guess I don’t know what I should do at this point? I don’t really want to back off but I feel like I need for him to show me that he wants to make an effort too or else I will continue to feel like this. But by just sitting back and waiting to see what he’s going to do I’m putting all the power in his hands and I don’t like that either. Torn :/