Hi perfect,
You have to be strong. Being strong means: not talking to him unless and until there is no girlfriend in the background. It’s bad enough to have a boyfriend that hides his girlfriend from you. It’s worse to be the one being hidden.
Do you want to be his dirty little secret?
No! Of course not!
So, tell him you will not talk to him or text him anymore until there is good news (for you!) on his relationship status.
Good Luck!
Inky
P.S. Yes, I understand about the Visa, but my advice is still the same
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