Dear Mina:

This thread is about your last relationship and the breakup. In your recent post you wrote: “Through that birthday message, he brought me back to life, as I already wrote above. I am slowly getting better after receiving that message. It finally felt like a real nice closure.”

But then you wrote: “I do not understand why it is so hard to “forgive” or let go of the situation?”- so there is no closure?

I am curious about your “somehow sick view of love” that you have to sacrifice yourself for the one you love, as proof of your love, hiding your real emotions. I wonder about the origin of this view. Any idea?

You told your ex boyfriend: “I am disappointed in you.”- I wonder what you meant by it.

You wrote that you are still protecting your ex with his secret. How are you doing that, presently?

Quite a few questions I asked.

anita