Anita,

1. You wrote : “This sacrifice is the reason you wrote in that thread: “I have become a stranger, even to myself. The process of the break up CHANGED me.”

so because of this sacrifice that I made, I felt like I became a totally different person even to myself? correct?

2. You wrote : “During the relationship your focus was on him, his concerns, his pain, his secrets. That was one kind of living.”

was it a bad way for me to live? be honest please

3. You wrote : “Because of your age, it is most likely that you learned this in your relationship with a parent or parents.”

can you explain more about this? I am not really understanding. so one of my parent or both of my parents, are somehow teaching me that I have to sacrifice myself for another person if I love them?

-Mina