Anita – That is a good perspective on her choice.  I should be thankful that she was mindful of her thoughts and behavior and didn’t want to hurt me.

As far as letting go, yes, the thought has crossed my mind but it is obviously hard.  When I said i would give her time to go through school and get through this hectic part, she thanked me and said that was “1000% what she needed”.  So by letting go am I lying to her or not keeping my word?  Or is it more of a mental thing for me to try and move on.  I guess i’m so conflicted.  It is just challenging to let go of someone you love and they love you.

Craig