Dear Nina:

Did I understand correctly: you saw this man in person only twice during the two years in which you communicated with him online. On those two occasions you traveled a long distance to see him. And during those two times you were physically intimate with him. Planning on seeing each other for the third time, he refused to travel so to see you. He wanted you to travel to see him, again.

You don’t want to travel yet again to see him because you are worried your parents will figure that you will be having physically intimate time with a man to whom you are not married, correct?

If so, how is it that they did not figure it out the first two times you traveled to see him?

anita