Hi. Connie,

If you are not ready to say “goodbye” yet, then don’t. No one can make this decision for you, and how deeply you loved this man, and the attachment you had with him. It is very painful and hard, because he is “home” only you will know in your heart, when and if to let go. Feelings change. Emotions change. You may make new memories with someone new, but it will take time. Sometimes, we tend to stay in love a long time after a break, or break-up. Every one is different. Right now the loneliness is keeping you hanging on, but it is okay. There are no “right” or “wrong” feelings. Just take it one day at a time.