Hi Angie,

Well, it’s better you got out NOW than when you’re married and STUCK. Him cheating on you the first time was a sneak preview of things to come. Admit it, if he continued this behavior, YOU would have packed up HIS things and told him “Sorry but I’m not happy”.

There is a slight danger that he will try to return (especially if the new girl will have nothing to do with him and he can’t find anyone right away). Or even years from now when he’s not as cute anymore and he’s scraping the bottom of his contacts. You are to remain strong and put your child first. That means not moving in with someone. It’s too much for the child and will damage him. “My real father isn’t here and now this other guy is treating my mom like crap” will be the unconscious message.

Good Luck and Stay Strong!

Inky