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August 24, 2017 at 10:55 am
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Peter
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A love can still be true even if Life requires a relationship to end.
The only way to stop thinking of someone is to stop thinking of them. To stop dwelling on all the could of, should of and if only we can imagine. Thus, the practice of Buddhism to let go of the past. And you will… or you wont
The trick is not to beat yourself up when you do find yourself thinking of her. Just notice the thoughts and let them pass through.
“We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more from imagination than from reality.” -Seneca
“The most painful state of being is remembering a future, particularly the one you’ll never have.” – Kierkegaard