Victoria B

The divorce and what led up to it…is not your issue. Staying away from a parent to protect yourself from emotional abuse was right. If your mom wants to have a healthy relationship with you, Than she needs help and to stop unloading her baggage and her issues on you, and your sister.

You did not betray your mom for going to live with your dad. Your mom betrayed you for stepping over the boundaries of being a proper parent and keeping her issues to herself, and not letting you be the child who still has a dad and a mom regardless if they don’t live together any more.

Do things that make you happy…it doesn’t sound like university is it right now…maybe it’s what you are studying and maybe look at a change….or look into a work visa to go to Ireland and what the requirements are.

Macy