Hello Moonshine,

I went through your earlier posts, I would want to share my experience with you. I underwent a similar situation to be dealt within myself .I really did fight for myself tried to talk to my parents, to make them understand what was hurting me, to change the way they think. But all in vain, they would get offended and disappointed with me. Undergoing all these made me feel that it’s ME who was creating the feelings inside ME and struggling with them. So, I had to change the way I think about them, it was me who was very much psychologically dependant on them. I did understand psychological dependance is one of the warmth factor about family but I was a little more expectant. I didn’t want to hurt myself or anyone anymore. So, I took control over myself and my feelings, dug deep inside me through meditation and started working on them. Its only YOU who can understand YOURSELF better and the best solutions are within YOU. Solutions are unique for everyone and every situation, there is no good or bad solution its only RIGHT solution that is right enough for you and only you ,either good or bad it doesn’t matter. Hope this post helped and please don’t mind if I sounded a little crude as I am not great in expressing through words.