Hi Mary899,

I suggest not dealing with those people at all! And then, when you do have to deal with them, seek sanctuary in politeness.

If they get mad at you, simply say, “I’m sorry you feel that way”. Yes, it is essentially a NON-apology, and might make them angrier. But that’s all they deserve for hurling insults at you. Don’t apologize for anything, especially if you have done nothing wrong!

As for the people who talk behind your back and give you the silent treatment, let them talk and let yourself relish in the silence of not dealing with them.

And find a better class of friends.

Best,

Inky

• This reply was modified 7 years, 3 months ago by Inky.