Hi Christopher,

It is very hard to be in a relationship with a widow. I have been in a few, and it always ends the same, with me getting hurt. Usually they come on too strong and intense, then they talk alot about their wife, then they start comparing me to her. Once I was making dinner, It was very romantic. Had the candles, table beautifully set up, he got home from work, didn’t appreciate anything, said “my wife would have put the flowers this way, or season the steak that way. It was always something, I felt I was always trying to “measure” up. It takes them a very long time to grieve and let go, I won’t ever date a widower again.